 I would love for the opportunity to discuss our work in Newtown for Sandy Hook, the conspiracies associated and furthered by the NYPD, who falsified a report- an indictable offense being investigated by the New York Attorney General, the celebrity who perjured an initial complaint and whom doubled down by committing perjury in court, and the after math of such abuse. *most notably the terrorizing of Newtown- an already fractured community, given the attack of a Sandy Hook First Responder. *a title bestowed to us by Gabby Giffords. In addition our support comes from a local government agency FOIL, as well as a damning report released by Gavin DeBecker and Associates. *Mr. DeBecker is essentially a hired gun who charges a monthly threat management fee of $50,000 to over a $100,000. •In order to get his expert testimony, he submits to court fraudulent reports, and irresponsible unfounded/unsupported fabrications easily proved.  ’my friend, Paul.
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But, we need the written “Live Life Comfortably” graphic changed. #LAZBOY #LiveLifeComforyably We represent Sandy Hook as its first Boots on the ground organization. Sandy Hook CenTer •honors the Sandy Hook 26. •support the bereaved *so we DNT have preventable losses such as: Sydney Aiello Calvin Desir + Jeremy Richman. •Gun Reform in the process. *removing Assault (type), military grade (like) weapons from civilian life. We are inspired by Dunblane Centre and honoring UK’s courage of gun reform within a year of the Dunblane Primary School massacre of ‘96. Your former spokesperson has done considerable damage to Newtown in their disillusion placated by a corrupt NYPD CO/ Lieutenant who misfiled in order to climb the ranks. We hold no discomfort in their perjured statements, as we find it a responsible family act. However, the ripple effect has cost lives and fractured further an already shattered community. Furthermore, we had support the VRY day of Sandy Hook’s psychopathic assault to build our CenTer and should be set to cut the ribbon. Instead we are now 4years behind. The Parkland/ Kasky Effect has brought our nation unity- unity that took the House, will take the Senate, and god willing the Presidency with Eric Swalwell.  Please check out INSTAGRAM
#ABUSEofPowerNY *this account created specifically for New York Attorney General Tish James. US expert Gavin DeBecker bought Ms. Shields victory in stalker case. With letters of support from billionaire hedge fund Bill Ackman of Pershing Sq. who pledged his support to build Sandy Hook CenTer the day of the Sandy Hook Elementary School Massacre. With additional support from Michelle Obama and then Joe Biden regarding our Hallmark collaboration, and celebrity support from Ricky Martin, Julianne Moore and Sarah Jessica Parker, our Dunblane Scotland inspired Centre SHOULD have been built already. *in fact we were offered the space of The Newtown Community CenTer to be our Sandy Hook CenTer but NYPD CO/ Lieutenant Kevin Blake interfered for self gain. We came to Newtown as part of the First Responders- our speciality was Trauma/PTSD having survived 9/11 and the loss of a spouse and personally experiencing the deaths of 2siblings from abuse/violence and CTE related injuries. Gavin DeBecker fraudulently stated gun violence where there was none, as did an NYPD sergeant who procured false charges based on his perjured account. The ADA then went to work for another DeBecker client after she Suborned Perjury. The only good thing DeBecker did do was release a conversation from 2014 that completely contradicts both Ms. Shields and her husband Chris Henchy. Lastly, Mr. DeBecker also categorizes creepy creepster/Stalkers into 3 based on romantic interest. The alleged stalker is gay, and has been in love with a dude since 1999, and at the time was in casual relationships with 3guys. *The thought of any romantic interest between alleged stalker and Ms. Shields would be similar lunacy to that of a tree. In fact the only attention Ms. Shields had been given was out of a sense of loyalty extended through her mother’s care back some 35years ago. *incidentally, Ms. Shields lived just two blocks away yet the prosecution could only account for 3interactions. I also weekend in East Hampton and instead of taking a left into East Hampton, I could easily take a right just another few blocks to do a drive by should I be so inclined.. but had never once any interest. Any and all creepers in the past have a history of showing up at all object of their weird affections homes. Ms. Shields stated in court her children were sent stuffed animals- a manipulation to scare the court by making a Rebecca Schaefer reference. Gavin DeBecker debunked that premise by offering a 2013 report that stated Ms. Shields was invited to Sandy Hook- for the commemoration of Sandy Hook’s 1st year. The event was also immortalized by Getty Images whom captured the Hallmark installation one year after the horrific shooting. Our mission is still the same- TO PREVENT THE DEATHS OF Sydney Aiello, Calvin Desir, + Jeremy Richman. •honor the Sandy Hook 26 •support the bereaved •eliminate assault-type weapons from civilian life. The determent of NYPD Kevin Blake, the Manhattan DA is not only criminal but maniacal. Dear Ms. Treachout,
May I ask you a question? In the wake of Discovery and the call to action for discovery before trial, what if anything can be done when Discovery is released after an Appeal. Upon review, I was able to get a FOIL that contradicted an NYPD Sergeant that was meant to then inflame an individual to File a False Police Report. Both issues were proven by a police issue report, as well as from Gavin DeBecker. Is this an issue for the Attorney General? Please forgive this question/ intrusion. But, being falsely accused will ultimately cost me my life I’m afraid. Sandy Hook father Jeremy Richman was NOT the first collateral casualty after Newtown suffered. He was however the first to succeed in ending his life st his own hand. I thought NYAG James would’ve addressed this by now- seeing we represent the first Boots on the Ground organization to run to Newtown’s aid. But, she has not and NYPD still terrorizes Newtown as a result. TY. I really do wish we elected you as AG. Perhaps we wouldn’t have seen the recent loss of the two Parkland youths and Sandy Hook dad. Caring for the bereaved was our primary mission as we know all too well the trauma/PTSD associated. "Most people believe a connection is something they earn by being “good enough” when it is really something they develop by being willing enough." #StartWithHello TRUE. (Sandy Hook Promise) But, you also can lead a horse to water. We, Sandy Hook CenTer came to Newtown having survived 9/11, and losing a beloved friend/and soon partner. We came with assistance of strong connections- heads of studios, the family behind NYC’s Highline/ $900m Starbucks infusion, heads of agencies, and heads of industry. 30yr connections actually. Start With Hello. Sandy Hook Promise was created with assistance from Barack Obama- told to me by Joe Biden’s camp as they (along with the then First Lady) helped Sandy Hook CenTer. Created in the form of Dunblane Centre and in honor of the UK’s swift and decisive action of #GunReform within a year. We also honored the 26lives senselessly taken, and wanted to support the bereaved. As you know our loss is great, and resulting Trauma/PTSD profound. Start with Hello. Start with DECENCY. Supporting the fight of #GunViolence should not require an elitist fraternity of having a dead child/loved one. It should consist of empathy and standing up to violence. But, certainly if it does require loss of life/ offering.. our helping Sandy Hook 24/7 since 2012 took us away from our own lives and away from obligatory cares. The result, a suicide attempt by one who’s since become disabled from a lack of oxygen, and an actual death of a preventable undiagnosed killer disease. Start with hello, start with decency. Our VERY existence was to prevent what happened to Sydney Aiello, Calvin Desir, and Jeremy Richman. We, at Sandy Hook CenTer have been treated without any decency and utter disregard. AND everyone of you- EVERYONE of you should’ve rallied beside us.. because if you were in Sandy Hook from the Friday Night Vigil until the memorial coming down.. you saw us caring for you all in your time of need. It’s ok to be vigilant- it’s preferred. But, we’ve published our resume- so to speak, and offered our references... We are all on the same side and should stand united. Parkland took the House. Parkland will take the Senate. Parkland stands united. And we should all be ashamed at our lack of humanity. In addition to losing my baby sister- who was considered my child. I’ve also lost her 6y/o boy, and 3y/o girl. Mark my words, their will be no empathy- only defensiveness and probable block. WE CAN change the world if WE learn from Parkland.  Connection Is a Core Human Need, But We Are Terrible at ItNo person is an island, and we need healthy relationships to thrive Brianna WiestFollow Dec 4, 2018 Illustration: Hélène Desplechin/Getty Images Inhis book Lost Connections, Johann Hari talks about his decades of work in the fields of trauma and mental health and why he believes that the root of almost everything we suffer through is a severed connection we never figured out how to repair. At one point, Hari talks about an obesity clinic where patients who were overweight to the point of medical crisis were put on a supervised liquid diet in an effort to try to save their lives. The treatment worked, and many of the patients walked out of the clinic hundreds of pounds lighter and with a new lease on life—at first. What happened later was a side effect no doctor predicted. Some of the patients gained back all the weight and then some. Others endured psychotic breaks and one died by suicide. After looking into why many of these patients had such adverse emotional reactions, the doctors discovered something important: The time when each patient began overeating usually correlated with a traumatic event they had no other coping mechanism for. Hari summed up the findings like this: “What we thought was the problem was very often a symptom of a problem that nobody knew anything about.” Connection is the experience of oneness. It’s having shared experiences, relatable feelings, or similar ideas.Of course, the implication is not that every single overweight person is suffering some kind of subconscious trauma. The point is that many of the ongoing problems we cannot resolve are, in fact, symptoms of deeper problems we may not be aware of. In fact, Hari analogizes this to the smoke of a burning house: You can keep waving away the clouds, but without putting out the fire, your efforts will be futile. The biggest problem in most people’s lives is trauma, and trauma is what creates a damaged ability to connect with others. “Trauma” is not a term reserved for the most severe and unrelenting atrocities one can experience. Anytime something scares us and we do not get over that fear, trauma is created. When we don’t believe we have the resources or abilities to cope with a certain problem or stimuli, we create adaptive behaviors to deny or avoid it. It’s not the trauma itself that causes the most long-term damage; it is how the trauma wreaks havoc on the psyche and prevents reintegration into a normal, healthy life where other people and unknown situations are seen as benevolent. You’ve probably heard this before in different ways: The is not sobriety, it’s connection. The foremost is a sense of belonging and purpose. Cultures that are more mentally healthy as a whole. People who are alone and get sicker before they do. We are a tribal species. There is no way around this despite what many highly individualistic cultures may want us to believe. No person is an island unto themselves. We are born through connection, and it is through connection to others that we accomplish virtually everything else in life. We do not just prefer healthy relationships; we need them. Connection is so important, but it is so often overlooked and there are few resources available to teach people how to foster real connection in their lives. But there are a few essential ideas that can help. Understand What Connection Is Connection is the experience of oneness. It’s having shared experiences, relatable feelings, or similar ideas. It is the feeling of belonging to something greater than oneself. When you’re watching a sporting event with your friends, you’re experiencing connection. When you gather with your family for dinner or open up and express your authentic feelings to another person or find you have something in common with someone, you’re experiencing connection. We’ve developed a world designed to create more connection than ever before, yet somehow, much of the digital age has severed connection or fostered inauthentic connection—which does not work. You cannot feign oneness. It is not something you intellectualize. It’s something you feel. Learn How to Connect With Others AuthenticallyAuthenticity is required for connection. The internet and social media do not disconnect us because we are glued to our phones at the dinner table but because they increase our ability to be inauthentic. They allow us to gloat, edit, filter, and post a highlight reel. We can construct a façade of our lives that may or may not be an honest reflection of reality. In this, we breech connection. People who have authentic connections over social media report having a largely positive view and experience of it. People who use it as a genuine way to stay in touch with others don’t report the same levels of anxiety and depression associated with its use. The reason people try to fake their way into being liked is that they confuse attention for connection—and they are not the same thing. Focus on Giving Connection, Not Receiving ItInorder to connect with others, we have to give them our time and honest feelings and ideas and have shared experiences and openness. We do not connect with others by trying to earn approval, awe, compliments, appreciation, envy, or superiority. In the process of restoring a connection with others, we can realize that we actually create a connection with ourselves.Most people believe a connection is something they earn by being “good enough” when it is really something they develop by being willing enough. If healing is a return to wholeness, then healing from trauma is remembering that we can trust others, we can trust ourselves, and we can trust life. It is the reintegration into easiness, calmness, and the willingness to allow life to be as it is rather than trying to control how it’s perceived. It is not waiting for others to initiate or sustain that connection. It is our own willingness to try again, be vulnerable again, show up for others, reach out, and make ourselves an active part of our communities and families and friend groups. Inthe process of restoring a connection with others, we can realize that we actually create a connection with ourselves. In being seen and loved for who we are, how we think, and what we feel, we learn it’s okay to be as we are. If our core human need is to connect with others, then the most important part of healing our emotional wounds is allowing ourselves to open up again. It is simply our willingness to show up as we are, and our trust that we will be taken care of. It is our discernment to give our time and energy to those who respect and cherish it back. And, most importantly, it is the knowledge that even if we do have to go through the fires of life—as all of us do—we come out the other end stronger, clearer, and more ready to appreciate what we have. Not unlike the Japanese art of "); background-size: 1px 1px; background-position: 0px calc(1em + 1px); background-repeat: repeat no-repeat;">kintsugi, where broken items are repaired and displayed with pride, our connections and reconnections are often strongest where we had to forge them ourselves. TRUE.
But, you also can lead a horse to water. We, Sandy Hook CenTer came to Newtown having survived 9/11, and losing a beloved friend/and soon partner. We came with assistance of strong connections- heads of studios, the family behind NYC’s Highline/ $900m Starbucks infusion, heads of agencies, and heads of industry. 30yr connections actually. Start With Hello. Sandy Hook Promise was created with assistance from Barack Obama- told to me by Joe Biden’s camp as they (along with the then First Lady) helped Sandy Hook CenTer. Created in the form of Dunblane Centre and in honor of the UK’s swift and decisive action of #GunReform within a year. We also honored the 26lives senselessly taken, and wanted to support the bereaved. As you know our loss is great, and resulting Trauma/PTSD profound. Start with Hello. Start with DECENCY. Supporting the fight of #GunViolence should not require an elitist fraternity of having a dead child/loved one. It should consist of empathy and standing up to violence. But, certainly if it does require loss of life/ offering.. our helping Sandy Hook 24/7 since 2012 took us away from our own lives and away from obligatory cares. The result, a suicide attempt by one who’s since become disabled from a lack of oxygen, and an actual death of a preventable undiagnosed killer disease. Start with hello, start with decency. Our VERY existence was to prevent what happened to Sydney Aiello, Calvin Desir, and Jeremy Richman. We, at Sandy Hook CenTer have been treated without any decency and utter disregard. AND everyone of you- EVERYONE of you should’ve rallied beside us.. because if you were in Sandy Hook from the Friday Night Vigil until the memorial coming down.. you saw us caring for you all in your time of need. It’s ok to be vigilant- it’s preferred. But, we’ve published our resume- so to speak, and offered our references... We are all on the same side and should stand united. Parkland took the House. Parkland will take the Senate. Parkland stands united. And we should all be ashamed at our lack of humanity. In addition to losing my baby sister- who was considered my child. I’ve also lost her 6y/o boy, and 3y/o girl. Mark my words, their will be no empathy- only defensiveness and probable block. WE CAN change the world if WE learn from Parkland. |
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